It is every man’s dream to be the bread winner but what if you’re not. Does that mean she does not have to submit to you as her man? Of course she needs to submit to you because that will make her feel complete as a woman.
Consider your relationship as a team. She can be the star player but no team in the history of sports has ever won a championship without a coach. You need to be working and strategizing and creating plans that will maximize the funds you are currently earning.
If you create a budget for your home, she will feel secure because she knows that there is a plan in place to financially get things done.