You always want to look your best and feel your best. That energy will keep other women looking at you. And Your Lady needs to feel the since that she still needs to compete with other women so she will stay looking her best.
Once you start letting yourself go, she will start letting herself go because she follows you. So don’t be surprised if she starts gaining weight and slipping in her looks if you are slipping yourself. Because remember she follows your energy, rather if it’s good or bad.
So it’s really all about you and staying on top of your game. The better you treat yourself the better she will treat you.